3 Steps to THRIVE & Sell by Mary Agnes Antonopoulos

So, is there really a formula to social media?  There is.  It took the better part of TEN years of owning a social marketing agency to have the privilege of figuring out the formula, and all I want to do, since that moment of discovery, is teach the formula to everyone else. 

Step 1.  At the core of it, social media is really a trust building exercise. This is the new reality.  Social platforms are one of the core arenas where we’re empowered to build a brand and a community in a whole new way.  This is a relationship first – to do your best SALES, however, you want to move your audience member from the social space to a potential sales space (like a webinar or a page on your website where you offer great content, or even your email list – because you are 30x more likely to sell by email than you are on social media – so social is ONLY your starting point).

But the opportunity around social just can’t be overlooked.  Even IF no one is looking.  Why?  Because GOOGLE is watching everything.

This is literally how any platform responds to a search inquiry.   And you need to know, every moment, that every one of these feeds into the mac-daddy of them all:  Google.  Until recently, Google’s rhythm for SEO had always been about keywords – and it led specifically back to your website keywords, so it was – to some degree – trickable.

(So, in order to be successful and come up on page 1 or 2 on a search, you had to have an SEO agency that really understood metatagging and metadata, who would keyword the heck out of your pages.  If you didn’t do it, you would never get found in a search.)

Some background:  To be honest, Google hated that. They hated that people had to buy their way to page one, and the normal person or company had no way to get there. This was not a democratic universe – and Google itself could not control it.  There was no great equalizer.  So they spent YEARS coming up with a new formula (two, actually).  And now?  The algorithm / SEO is all about social grid.  It’s about your social connections, your friends, their friends – it’s all who’s talking about you, who’s sharing about you and the impact you’re having.

And remember, because of this, one person’s response to a search query on Google is totally unique from another.  The answer you get back from Google when you search something looks nothing like someone else’s. It’s as individual as your DNA – and it changes daily.

They determine the answer to your searches based on infinite criteria like, where have you been recently, what are you talking about, what are your friends talking about? If I wanted to look up Hawaiian vacation, they might show me a place that my sister mentioned on her Facebook or Twitter account about a Hawaiian vacation.

They’re going to answer you based on what your community has been sharing and commenting on. This is a multi-headed hydra WORTH understanding.  So here’s the million-dollar question: 

Step 2.  The formula for success on social media begins with YouTube.  Period.  100%.  Why?  Because Google owns it (and video is super engaging).

So let’s step back for a minute:  In the end, what’s the barometer for knowing that your social strategy is working?  Is it the number of fans, followers, or engagement?  Nope. It’s conversion. AND ONLY conversion.  I want your barometer for how it’s all working to be social-to-email-list conversion. Does that make sense? Because that’s all that really matters. It doesn’t matter how many fans, followers, or how high your engagement is. It’s who’s converting to your email list.  And that is a trust building exercise.  And the fastest way to build someone’s trust is to have a face-to-face conversation.  Video is your next best path to creating the experience of a conversation.

Why is conversion the only real number to measure your success by?  


Literally.  1% of your audience SEES your posts.  And first, you have to buy the ‘likes’ or fans.  Then you have to BOOST to get more than 1% of them to see what you post.  You pay coming and going.

On social media, your conversion rate to an actual sale is .48% (IF you get it right).  But it’s 2.64% through a Google search.  And it’s potentially as high as 30% on an email launch. THIS is your measure of success, your barometer.  It’s not the sale itself, because you can control that once someone’s in your realm – but it’s the number you’re moving from social to your list, where your opportunity to GET the higher sales conversion lives.

YouTube is your best way for you to be your own ambassador and broadcast yourself.

Even if you were going out live, on stage, having face-to-face every week, on You Tube you’re broadcasting yourself every day, 24 hours a day.

Step 3.

You’ve got to really be fast, so I recommend you start with their pain.  Start talking about WHY they are suffering, then give your credentials, then solve their problem and offer MORE solutions if they opt into your list.  THEN and there that person has moved from someone else’s network, and their rules and culture, to one YOU create.

Here’s to what you create next,

Mary Agnes Antonopoulos
Kick-A** Copywriter and Social Strategist